Before we get started the first thing to do, tell yourself "I am worthy of affection and love", anybody that is not willing to give you a chance will have to deal with it, their lose not yours. We are all people regardless of skin color, height, weight and appearance. Treat others like you would like to be treated and you have already started before you have even read the tips.
You can't really make someone like you, just like not everyone likes the color blue or pizza but you don't know if you like something until you try it, same goes for people. Until you really get to know someone do you know if they are worthy of your affection. You may think you like someone by their appearance but until you know them and find out what is inside if you you really like them. True love comes from the inside.
Everyone deserves to be loved. The last thing you want to do is make a bad first impression and end any possibility of connecting with that special someone before you have even had a chance to start a relationship.
Men and women don't think entirely the same but certain fundamentals in behavior and appearance regardless of sex can deter someones interest in you.
If you are interested in a boy, girl, man, woman the last thing you want is to make them not like you before they really get to know you. Unfortunately the younger you are the more you are attracted to looks and are not seeing the real person. If looks were the most important thing in a relationship why are so many models, movie stars or even people you know breaking up so often? It is the inside person. These tips are designed to improve the first impression you give and peaks someones interest in you. Even if you are not looking for a relationship and are looking for just friendship first impressions go a long way. You can't change everyone else but you can make improvements to yourself. Everyone can use a little self improvement as no one is perfect. By following these tips you will gain self confidence and have people flocking to be at your side in no time.
10 tips on how to make someone like you by not giving them a reason not to like you
1-Avoid profanity, it doesn't impress anyone and some people may find it embarrassing to be around someone that can't talk appropriately
2-Smile a lot, especially when talking to the person you are interested in. When you don't look happy they don't get as good impression of you as they could have.
3-Appearance, simple neat and clean. You don't want to look like a "Ho" or a "Bum"
4-Brush your teeth often, nothing can be more of a turn off than yellow teeth and bad breath
5-Be truthful when you talk, telling wild stories that are not believed will end any chance you had before it starts
6-Be humble when you speak, bragging shows lack of confidence and doesn't impress anyone
7-Try to let the other person do he the talking and show interest in what they are saying
8-Never belittle someone else, keep everything on a positive note. >example: "I am glad you broke up with her, she was a bitch" The person you are talking to may still have feelings for this person and even though they are broke they may resent you for your comments. You are better with something like "That was too bad you two broke up, what happened?"
9- Show interest in the other persons activities
10-Make yourself available to activities or online chats ,phone calls etc.
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